“Don’t quit!”
“You got this far, keep going”
“You can’t fail unless you quit”
“The moment you want to quit is the moment you need to keep pushing”
“Quitting is never an option”
“Pain is temporary. Quitting last forever”
These messages flying around out in the world, at first glance, seem to be great.
It is called motivation.
Yet, is it the right kind of motivation?
So many have been lead to believe that quitting is a ‘bad’ thing, makes you ‘bad’, and who wants to be or feel ‘bad’?
To know your ‘why’ in any/all of your choices is empowerment in action.
What does this mean?
By looking at the ‘why’ behind any and all choices you have made or will make is so insightful. By asking ‘why’ you made this choice and asking if this ‘why’ aligns with YOUR ‘why’ of the life you desire to live.
To be so focused on ‘not quitting’ may very well take you so far off YOUR ‘why’ causing deep feelings of purposelessness, causing you to ask ‘why’.
You begin to ask yourself why is your life feels so empty, purposeless, pointless and unfulfilling?
There is are many ‘whys’ in the ‘why’ of you life. By discovering YOUR ‘why’ is critical in all the ‘why’s you find yourself asking throughout life choices.
What is YOUR ‘why’? Well dear one…it is YOU!!
YOU, truly being You is your ‘WHY’…
The skill of knowing ‘why’ to quit is also valuable to understand what the everyday ‘why’s you need to take action on to align with YOUR ‘Why’…
Why all the why’s?
“When you think about quitting, think about why you started”
“You know when you just have to walk away from things that no longer align with ‘you’ anymore”
When you understand YOUR ‘why’, you understand ‘why’ you make that align with YOUR ‘why’.
Think of it this way.
If you want to travel to a specific place for a holiday. Why would you book any ticket to any place? Why would you pack random things into your suitcase? Why would you get angry when you have not arrived at that specific place? Why would you complain about the random clothing you packed as inappropriate for the place you have arrived at? Why? Why?
Ask yourself ‘why’ you are unable to, unwilling or incapable of knowing YOUR ‘why’?
Why are you leaving the definition of YOUR ‘why’ to others idea or opinion of you?
Why are you allowing the ‘why’s in your life to be driven by those who get their ‘why’s fulfilled because you do not know YOUR ‘why’?
Wait, what?…
The science of marketing and understanding of how your human behaviours, if left unchecked, are driven by forces outside of yourself and are highjacked by the ‘why’s of others. To understand this is crucial if you are wanting to live a fulfilled life.
What defines a fulfilled life?
You need to know the ‘why’s to know what fulfilled means to you.
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