The Issues Are in the Tissues

September 20, 2025

When Trauma Lives in the Body

“The issues are in the tissues” is more than a clever phrase – it reflects a deep truth about how trauma embeds itself in our bodies. Traumatic experiences don’t always remain as distant memories in the mind. Instead, the nervous system often reacts by tightening muscles, altering breath, or holding protective postures. Over time, the body learns to store survival as if danger is still present, long after the moment has passed.

This can manifest in many ways: chronic tension, headaches, digestive distress, unexplained pain, or the sense of never quite feeling safe in your own skin. These are not signs of weakness, but signs of a body doing its best to protect you. The problem arises when those protective strategies – helpful at first – become patterns that keep us stuck.

Healing begins by honoring this wisdom rather than fighting it. Words and stories are important, but they are only one doorway. The body also needs to be invited back into safety through breath, movement, grounding practices, and gentle presence. These embodied approaches allow the nervous system to remember: “I survived. I am safe now.”

Integration happens when the mind understands, the heart feels, and the body releases. When we give our tissues the compassion and patience they deserve, we create space for them to soften. The survival imprint loosens, and new ways of being become possible.

Because sometimes healing isn’t about forcing the issues out of the tissues – it’s about creating the conditions where they no longer need to stay.


If you’re ready to explore how body-based healing can support your journey, I invite you to book a free consult call. Together, we’ll create the space your body needs to feel safe, release what it’s been holding, and begin to move forward with greater ease.


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