July 12, 2025

An I Am, I Will Reflection

We live in a culture obsessed with self-improvement, where every struggle becomes a problem to fix, every emotion a sign of failure, and every part of us that doesn’t fit the mold is labeled “broken.”

But what if none of that is true?

What if healing isn’t about fixing at all—
but about finding?

I Am Not Broken

I am not broken.
I am not defective.
I am not too much or not enough.

What I am is buried. Beneath the conditioning, the expectations, the survival patterns, and the pressure to perform—
there is a self I haven’t yet fully remembered.

There is nothing wrong with me.
There are only pieces I’ve hidden.
Pieces I’ve protected.
Pieces I’ve been told were wrong, too loud, too sensitive, too soft, too wild.

But I am whole.
Even when I feel fragmented.
Even when I feel lost.
Even when I forget.

I Will Let Go of What Isn’t Me

I will not waste my life trying to fix what was never broken.
I will no longer spend my energy editing my soul to fit into systems that never saw me.

Instead, I will let go
of the noise, the roles, the outdated narratives.
I will shed what is not mine to carry.

Every false belief I release,
every layer I outgrow,
every mask I set down,
brings me closer to my truth.

This is not a breakdown.
This is a becoming.

I am returning to the self beneath it all—
not creating her from scratch,
but uncovering her.

I Am the Finder, Not the Fixer

The deeper I go, the more I realize:
I was never meant to be a fixer.
I was meant to be a finder.
A seeker of essence. A witness to truth.

There is gold in my grief.
There is wisdom in my wounds.
There is clarity in the stillness of no longer performing.

And so I choose:

I Am remembering who I am.

I Will walk forward, not to fix, but to find.

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