ABUSE

What is abuse?

Abuse: use (something) to bad effect or for a bad purpose; misuse.

If we break down this definition a little further, we find insight into the subtle ways we are abusive, allow ourselves to be abused or accept abuse, with our participation in some way or other, even if it is just by giving witness to it, no matter the form it takes.

Let me explain what I mean when I say ‘no matter the form’.  Whenever we are watching any/all forms of abuse played out in media, whether that is in the news, a movie, shows, or social platforms matters not, we are witnessing it, and normalizing it.  It also matters not, if we knowingly, unknowingly, intentionally, unintentionally normalize abuse, abuse is within our life experiences.  Now ask yourself if this is the, so called normal life, that you prefer.

Let us break down the definition of abuse further, so we may become knowledgeable about it, to utilize the well known ‘knowledge is power’ statement for the empowerment of our life.  The (something) in the definition, in my opinion, deserves our attention at this time.  What does (something) mean?

Something: a thing that is unspecified or unknown.

That is a vague definition and if we’re not focused on what we define as something, and how we interact with whatever that something is, we are left to the defining of what  something is to others &/or to our learned programs we have come to normalize and call ‘life’.

Let us get very clear about what the word abuse means and how we have normalized it in ourselves, our families, our communities, our education systems, our health care system, in politics and government, religious settings, and our interactions within the world overall.

Normalize: bring or return to a normal or standard condition or state.

Misuse: use (something) in the wrong way or for the wrong purpose.

Bad: of poor quality or a low standard.

Unspecified: not named or stated explicitly: not specified.

Unknown: not known or familiar.

Effect: a change which is a result or consequence of an action or other cause.

Purpose: the reason for which something is done or created or for which something exists.

As we become more knowledgeable about the ‘spell’-ing we are continually doing, automatically do, we can see why we are in the life we are currently in.  We have literally, through the word/s, created the life we are experiencing.  I now ask how you want to ‘Spell’ your life into existence?

Until I truly understood how I was NOT in control of my energy and in what way it was being hijacked, manipulated, being used against me in such a way that I took up its cause and abused myself continually.  I was taught how to weaponize the ‘word/s’ against others and myself, which became the so-called normal that we live in at this time.

Until I came to realize this I was always thinking, ‘Life isn’t fair!’, yet I know that life is absolutely fair…100% of the time.  Wait, what the actual fudge?

Hear me out on this one.

To truly understand the Law of Attraction is to understand that we are continually in fair exchange within every moment of our life.  It can be no other way.  Another way to look at the Law of Attraction is to see that it holds within it ‘Intention’ & ‘Attention’.

Whatever/wherever, whether you do this knowingly or unknowingly, matters not, you give your attention to, will grow.

Examples: If you are fighting for change, you will be fought.

Wait, WTF does that mean?

Everything in life is energy/frequency/vibration.  Like attracts like.  Since we are nature and physics (which is nature seen scientifically), whatever energy we operate from will be brought into our experience.

Since everything, people, places, things, animals, beliefs, thoughts, emotions, everything, is energy we have direct informing of how we are using our energy in the world by watching what our lives are.

Example: If we abuse ourselves, whether we are knowingly or unknowingly doing this, we welcome abuse energy into our lives.  Therefore, when we let go of self-abuse, in its subtle various ways, we are no longer vibrating at the frequency of abuse which will, by the laws of the universe, no longer resonate with abuse, which will no longer be our experience.

We hold the keys to the prison, our so-called unfulfilling life, that we find ourselves imprisoned within.  Until you recognize this you will continually ‘Spell’ your imprisonment/enslavement into existence.

Reminder, where your attention goes, your energy flows.  This is a natural law of the universe…we have not fully understood it in the same manner as we do with the law of gravity.

Let us understand and know why we experience what we do in this universe, just as we understand that if we jump off a building gravity will always operate as it always has and we will go splat…we understand and know this, therefore we do not blame gravity for our pain.  Now let us truly invest in understanding and knowing what the other universal laws are and in which way they affect us, and how to best use them in a way that serves us and our experiences.  (articles on the universal laws to come out at a later date)

Ponder on the following:

Law of Attraction

Law of Intention

Law of Attention

Whatever/wherever you give your attention with/to, your energy flows.

If you are giving attention to abuse in any form, you are attracting it into your life experiences.

A deeper dive into the Law of Attraction is forthcoming…stay tuned!